You have a home for your children where you are and I know you will find work and all the support you need turn your focus to make it there if only to give your children stability through the divorce and to save up money. She has now moved out of state, and never told me she was moving and has no contact with him. If you have children you will need to take this into account according to your relationship with your father. SHES REALLY ALIENATING HIM FROM ME AS WELL? But most importantly he can have his father and a family, and not his grandparents 5days a week, his best friends dad and family every evening after school and his mom 2 days out of the week, me full time. If you have that intimate time with them it is a treasure you can share with them when it truly means something to them. This child is in danger and weve tried every emergency avenue to prevent having to send her back to her mothers but nobody will do anything. He pays child support regularly, but she is upset he has, what she calls the other family I dont know who we are suppose to talk to first, do we call cops to file a report and get a case number? At Christmastime, he pulled this, knowing the courts were closed that week, so she couldnt do anything until the following week when they re-opened. The child support went up $300 more with the modification with AGO, so he is highly mad; and also now has another son that he has to pay for alone with our son together. BTW, she found her SS# from an old document. So I am fighting for the same injustice as those fathers you talk about and mothers. Well you gave a lot of info but heres the short. Am I correct in thinking that this situation falls under MASS general laws chapt 265 sect 26A which refers to parental interference?? I dont understand. In some of my conversations with my kids, they have told me that there are no bedrooms in the house that they all sleep in the same room together. At this time your best recourse is to file for contempt, but if there is slander, which is written there is a great chance you can win on that but that is your best hope. Her mother has convinced her that Randy is an awful person. But, this is the way he has been treated the whole time. We would like to know what are options are. What should I do? And how should he go about securing his rights to see his children? Upon contact with the DFACS rep, he advised that my brothers rights were completely gone and said it would take more money than we could afford to get it over turned. One thing we have been thinking about doing is finding a legal rep to help us with this issue. She refuses to bring him to me. I am the one who has trine care of her for the past 4 years. I have joint legal custody and my husbands new wife signed as being the parent with joint legal cusody of my son on his drivers permit. The child would be much better off with us, but we dont know if the courts will make that change based on that. His probation requires he work no less than 40 hours per week. I open the door to find city police at my door step asking if the children were there. And no i dont forget it when i know we are goin somewhere and yes i did count the diapers. Now she will not allow me to see the children unless I also see her (she does not want a divorce). I would take custody of her in a second, but right now she wouldnt want to live with me due to her dads manipulations. Im moving outta state for a Better job and cheaper cost of living. Any help is appreciated. I truly think there is much more to this story so all I can say is put aside control and show your son some love and respect on his decisions as it will go a lot further in your relationship. Domestic Violence went on and I got a No Contact Order, but still provide to allow her to see our son, but was in fear, as she never went to get mental health treatment. In the few states that make this a crime they usually call it parent time interference. She doesnt work and I live over a hour each direction. My sister lived in hawaii, i flew her over here to me in Washington because she was being abused by my parents. Call, email and mail her certified letters she is committing willful interference if she interferes with your custody and that you will press charges; then find the statute for interference with custody in your state call the police and demand a warrant for interference with custody which is criminal, not civil and after she is arrested, file a contempt. Had his dad ever made an attempt to visit him here, maybe he wouldnt be so scared..but he will not put forth the effort and then wants a 3 year old to be happy to come and stay for months at a time with practicly a stranger (He only sees him at Christmas and summer when I bring him to Michigan). My visit starts at 1130 Is there anything I could do? Instead, he takes him to his moms despite my attempts to tell him that Im supposed to be given the option first. years were not divorced and he is on my side. My ex husband does not follow the court ordered custody that was changed by him in 2013 when he took me back to court on on false charges when him and his wife decided to state the person I had watching my daughter was irresponsible and left my daughter alone, They also stated my daughter and her son wete left alone cooking at 9/10 yrs old. I have joint custody of my 12yr. was I would sneak out and hide things and stay out all night long, it quickly I cannot tell you the outcome as this could be a sticky situation due to jurisdiction, time, age and a mess of other things. I have two bi-racial kids. I am not a lawyer, but I knows these facts from my own personal experiances Lots of mothers that do not look out for the better interest for the child often say well they need their mother. An official website of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts Here's how you know. He is not considering what is best for her. Restrictions or loss of visitation or custody, or. suffers from PTSD and has attempted suicide in the past and O. Sr. and I fear for O. Jr.s welling being. When my son went to jail myself and my husband helped with the kids til the courts granted the mother custody. Up to parents.org My son feels like his son has been kidnapped by her. She moves 4 hours away (one way). He probably scared that girl off, if shes smart. They put an armband on the child that matches up with you and the child cannot leave unless you are with them. Im going through a custody battle with my ex we already went through mediation and have court next week. thats the way it has been. Is he violent? him, saying he wasnt going back to Florida at all if hes gonna get arrested. How do I get a REAL judge to look over the case so I can have more time with my boys? And he seems to think that he is going to end up getting our son every other week from Sunday- Saturday. ann. Dont let her (or anyone else) get to you over these petty attacks or issues just keep your focus on your daughter and youll know youre on the right path. You need to have proof. My daughter is 13 (or will be in 30 days) and Im the non-custodial father. And had them for 2 years. The issue Im having is that my ex wifes mother interrupts my visits, ends the visits 10 minutes from me seeing my son and now is not even showing up. The only order issued by a judge is an order to attend mediation (since intitial filing I have yet to sit in front of a judge). Can I have the police go to his house without me being there and get them. All I want is to be able to see and talk to my son as often as possible and not on my exs terms only. My question is can i file charges for interference with custody even after she was returned?? He recently took the children and refuses to return them. I feel I am policed and constantly tries to find info on me to take to court. However, in reality, some departments may be hesitant to do so if the order is not specific clear enough. Throughout the 6 years, I signed a consent once when they moved to Dallas, another when they lived in California, the times they have traveled and so on. You see, I say my daughters fight because to me it is all about what is best for her. I am the custodial parent and the non custodial parent does not pick him up or bring him back on time. I sent multiple reports to DA, in court judge told me I didn`t file the right motion for contempt`s form. A COR was put in place by the state of Tennessee stating I could have no contact with the victim (my husband) directly or indirectly. They did not care about that though. Good luck. They WILL not let him have the phone I pay for and REFUSE to answer my calls to speak to him. It will also completely reduce the huge overload of cases in the corrupt family court system. Her plan is to pack up with the kids and just leave one day when he is at work and not tell him anything. I dont know what to do right now. The state is involved as well. I was locked up for this. In a way, if you lose custody, it is what you were trying to do to the other parent and so there cant be too much sympathy if that is what you get instead. If found guilty, jail time is a possible penalty. best of luck and dont be to heartbrokendid you really want someone who always ignored you an did not see the true treasure before him? You will need to know where he lives as the parent must be legally served with the court documents. And secondly what do I need to do to get the custody process started the fastest? She lives with her married boyfriend and his kids and yells cusses and has no job. Your sons needs and desires are what should be important to you both biological and adopted. How the court didnt pick up on it and has made ruling on it and how it has done gross negligence to Constitutional rights and all the other crimes I havent a clue it should be: Rico with kidnapping on the grounds of fraud, grand theft and attempted extortion with aiding of kidnapping by ways of perjury of affidavit while working under the color of law. Im so confused. (she used to be a straight A student who never had to study, and was enrolled in the TAG Talented And Gifted program) She is now failing in classes that she should be excelling at. My brothers baby mother moved back to Ohio. A court order has limitations to it and most states restrict the involvement of the police involvement which in turn limits what the DA can do. I would advice you to go directly to the sheriffs office to show them a copy of your order that states he was to bring your children back to you after summer vacation so they can see for them selves the act was commited and how he (I am assuming) enrolled the children in school without your consent.. Court orders I have her every 1st 3rd and 5th weekend and half summer. I live in Az and have temp physical custody of our three kids. His daughter needs to be in school, not to mention the mother is mentally unstable and she does not have a place to live. My exhusband took in his 21 year old cousin who was just released from jail and is now on parole for drug charges, possesion and intent to sell. Now my daughter refuses to come home. God bless I have visitation schedule ordered through the court but the mother moved and I have not been able to locate her or my son. It could all be empty threats to get a rise and if not they broke the law and dont feel guilty filing. I did however remain in contact with their mother and allowed her to speak with the kids whenever she wanted and also told her she could come visit the kids at my house. Custodial interference is a serious legal matter in the state of Texas. I have done everything I can to keep things civil between my ex wife and I, Ive helped her w buying clothes for our daughter when she couldnt afford to buy them..I am doing everything I ca n to stay civil w her but her boyfriend or fiance or whatever he may be to her complicated things Easter Sunday upon meeting me at a local truck stop topick our daughter up! I agree with the other poster that you need to file for a divorce and then get the parenting plan in place. meant to be. What's custodial interference? It is very possible that he never wanted you to move so far away and it sounds like he was in the military at the time and really could not say or do much about it because of his military commitment. There is no custody order in place and the child has been with my daughter since birth. away rights do I have has the main parent ??? I dont care about filing contempt or enforcement orders with a court. Love the child more than any agenda to fight or control or abuse the legal system for gain. I live 15 minutes away from he and my son. My ex-wife has Primary custody. He has been pleading and begging with me since he got here to let him stay. My ex didnt let my younger daughter see how mean he was to me, so she probably believes I lied. You have to check Ohio laws, but I think at 17 you cant be a run-away call your local police and ask them. the sperm doner of my son is making it impossible to move, he has visitation, but he never comes anyways. He is doing good in school. Az. So with that said your ex is doing the right thing. I just would like to know which one Im supposed to follow. Due to what has happened with our son, he has been going through alot of depression, anger, defiantance, drugs, etc. Thats what were called to do as human beings put ourselves in the other persons shoes, because what we judge and how we judge will be how we are judged in the future. The papers that i recieved in the mail stated that i shouldnt have any contact with her until the court date or it would result in the issuance of a warrant, however she keep calling and texteing my phone can she gte in trouble for this.My aunt and her mom said they will testify for me and we also have messages and multiple witnesses that conversated with her about me coming to get my son. In my opinion, have fun in Hawaii, but do one more certified letter with that verbiage and to the supervisor of the visitations they do need to be notified as well. Take the weekend your child is visiting the other parent and look for another job youll probably have one by Monday and this will all be a moot point!!! I have read you state statute and all I can say is this is not a criminal law issue only a civil family law issue. Can you let the other parent go to the doctors with you? This is also reflected in the state of Georgias statutes (google the state statutes and go down to child custody). He is supposed to have our son every weekend, and now I am seriously afraid that he is dragging our son into an impossible situation, in which my older daughters already know has been hazardous, as this woman is their step mother and wife of my 1st husband yes, I know, Jerry Springer crap dont remind me please. My ex refuses to let me see my daughter, moves without telling me the location, and recently took my daughter to California without the courts, nor my approval. Expenses incurred by a lawful custodial parent or a parent enforcing a valid joint custody order in locating and regaining physical custody of the person taken, enticed or kept in violation of this section are "economic damages" for purposes of restitution under ORS 137.103 (Definitions for ORS 137.101 to 137.109) to 137.109 (Effect of . Utah law states, A person who is entitled to custody of a child is guilty of custodial interference if, during a period of time when another person is entitled to visitation of the child, the person takes, entices, conceals, detains, or withholds the child from the person entitled to visitation of the child, with the intent to interfere with the visitation of the child.. Long story short I went to court yesterday and lost! Not expecting the first weekend that it all be put on the other parent to jump to your changes? my 9 y.o had scaring in the rectum. If the last court order provides that you have sole legal and physical custody and that father has no visitation, then you may not need a court order. they say it is a civil mater. i seriously doubt any prosecutor would waste their time bringing charges. Attempted to file Order to Show Cause but judge would not hear since no imminent physical danger. CAN SHE BE ARRESTED? Then a homeless shelter, hotel, a drug house, and back to another homeless shelter. I want to press charges, but I am unaware of the law regarding my children who are to a different male. What state would I need to file for Custodial Intereference? What are my rights? He was just being a brat, he deserves a good spanking and some counseling at the most! c. 265, s. 26A) (PDF 17.53 KB) Recent Revision 1988 I told him that if he doesnt let me know when hell be picking up our son then he doesnt go. To answer your question in short, yes. even ran to Florida and was wanted for almost 2 years until she wrecked drunk and high AGAIN and was taken straight out of the hospital to jail again. What is upsetting is, my exhusband isnt going with them and isnt allowed to leave the united states. Even if its convenient for you that the courts are favorable to your personal desires by some bias the fact that they operate without looking to determine the facts as best they can to make impartial decisions, rather than claims alone the benefits of this system will be to abusive people who have no issues telling lies. Chapter 8: Custody and visitation provides an overview of the law regarding child custody and visitation in Massachusetts and includes relevant case law. You may be marginalizing the greatest thing; being a parent for something minor. Judges are not enforcing these gender laws fairly, and few seem to care. However, if father has any court ordered visitation you will need to seek an order from the court that modifies the visitation order considering your new location. I have sole custody of my son. When I had my check book and could have written a check for the 620.00. On a day that he did not have visitation she called him and told him to pick up his son. His father is rarely ever even there. Trust me if this is the worst he has done, I can guarantee it can get much uglier. Mass.gov is a registered service mark of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. I have moved out of Connecticut to Minnesota and dont know what to do so I can contact him..Husband has blocked my number. Yet a child being a mothers possession or property because she primarily takes care of him/her in their daily needs and does so alone while the father works, is not only the acceptable norm, but something that needs to be commended and applauded, with everyone saying, there goes one strong woman! ? We do live in a small town but the laws are written for a reason. While in her care, he also almost chopped his own thumb off due to her not watching him and that required surgery. Well that Friday in his home town they were putting on a show and a parade. allowed a relationship with my mother or sister but being the fire cracker I So we filed papers to modify parent child relationship. The E.R. Or maybe even a cheaper daycare center thats around the corner from her house and its only $300.00 a month vs. $754.00? Gotta love a combative and irrational parent. Dont take it lightly you are in for the fight of your life. I do have full custody of him now. I have joint physical custody of my son,she only has visitation rights which i can deny if she is not not sober or in the right mental state. I finally recieved a phone call today from my daughter. Her father refused to return her to me. First, the prosecution has to prove that the person involved in such activities was a relative of a child. Good luck and dont take it lightly, dont give up, protect yourself because attorneys will use false allegations, TPO (restraining orders), etc. What options do I have? then he wasnt there when I went into labor with our son, because he said and I quote I want to smoke a blunt and f*** these hos I found down on the riverwalk, then when I had him on speakerphone with the B.C. OK I HAVE A BABY MOM AND SHE WONT LET ME SEE MY SON WE DONE WENT TO COURT I HAVE SET DATES AND TIMES THAT I CAN GET WAT SHOULD I DO SO THAT I CAN PICK MY SON UP ON MY DAYS. The system doesnt care about the kids at all. The reason this is done, is they now have to decide who will pay for travel and other things to ensure there is still adequate time-sharing, and generally it is the parent who wants to move. Is there anything in writing as far as a parenting plan or court order on who has custody? What if you are the non-costodial parent? Do it for the children for they deserve better, we all do. Other states like Illinois with give your a half hour of free legal counsel. Move to where your kids are i am the father of two kids full custoy wasnt easy court costs money. He didnt beat you up or harm your baby and you dont know what transpired in the previous assault charge because you were not there. I asked him if he told the dad he didnt like that and he said yes but he just kept on mom. I gave my mother in law shared custody of my two kids back in 2013 when I was not stable and into some dumb stuff, I had my two oldest stay with her til I got my life straight because I knew that was the safest way for them to be properly cared for, well I got better, have my own place, job etc and have had my kids back for three years now, the grandmother did not once in those three years bring up the shared custody agreementbut then all the sudden few weeks ago the grandmother takes my daughter and wants to follow shared custody again after not following it for three years , and mind you the shared custody was for her to have my other oldest too, so she should have two kids, but the grandma confesses she cant handle two kids and I only takes my daughter(which out of all her grandkids she plays favorites and my daughter is her favorite, and this bothers her other grandkids cause she barely shows them as much aattention as he does my oldest daughter) so now the mother wants to ave the shared custody terminated cause the mother is able to care for all her kids on her own with their father, the mother no longer needs the grandma to have any kinda custody of her kids (at beginning before custody papers the grandma also agreed to give the kids back to the mother when she got better no questions no problems, also mother barely remembers signing custody papers back in 2013 cause she was not in her right frame of mind to be reading legal papers or signing anything) how does the mother get this taken care of?
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